Tuesday, October 17, 2017

Zarahelma Week 5

Elder Barraro
This week has been pretty chill, both literally, and figuratively! The weather has been cooling down a lot, and it's been rainy most of the week. We're starting to break out the sweaters and jackets!

Elders Brenchley & Tueller are trying to teach me Spanish
(and they don't speak Spanish)
On Wednesday, we had a meeting for all the missionaries in training, which was so cool since I got to see all (except Sister Boyle who is serving in Arizona) of my MTC district! Although we weren't able to talk for very long, we all got to catch up a little bit which was so amazing. I've missed them all so much! The meeting was really great, the Assistants to the President, Sister Phillips, and President Phillips all gave lessons on different topics, and it was such a great meeting. I learned a lot! That night Elder Barraro, one of the Assistants, came on exchange with Elder Brenchley. He's a really cool guy and such a great missionary. It was fun to get to know him a little bit.

Elder Gauthier and I had a great time
On Thursday and Friday, I had the opportunity to go on an exchange with Elder Gauthier, one of our zone leaders. He's from France and is so cool! He is basically a genius. He got two masters degrees from Columbia, and wants to go back for another! And he's only 25! He worked in DC at the French Embassy for a summer, and it was cool to talk to him about it a little bit. He is also extremely good at contacting, specifically on the metro. He helped me a ton, as I was struggling a bit with contacting, and I was able to find 6 people on the metros that day in only 2 hours! It was so awesome. I also was able to teach a couple of lessons in French with him, which was so cool to be able to give my first real lessons in French. It was such a great exchange! On Friday night Elder Colunga and I went to the Lemos Family for a dinner appointment, and they were so nice! It's always awesome to eat real food. We then went to the chapel for Elder Colunga to do a baptismal interview for one of the Sister team's investigators in our district. She's getting baptized this Saturday! So cool!

Some weird stick figures we found in the city while we were lost
Saturday pretty slow, and all of our appointments fell through. We had three lessons and an appointment with a member, and all of them either weren't there or told us they couldn't do it when we got there. We were a little bit discouraged, but it wasn't bad. We had a ton of time to do contacting which was great! There are always going to be days like that on the mission, but it just opens up opportunities to do other things. We had another baptismal interview with one of the investigators from the Elder's in our district, and he got baptized on Sunday!

Sunday was fairly average, went to church which was always great. Later we had a great lesson with a less active member and her husband and their two kids. Her husband is progressing fairly well, and he will probably be baptized eventually which is great! We also went with the Bishop to a less active member's house and just checked in to see how everything was going. The Bishop is super cool. He is Chilean, and speaks Spanish SUPER fast, so sometimes I can hardly understand him, but my Spanish is continuing to get better so I've been able to talk to him a little more.

Monday was also fairly slow, but we got to do a lot of contacting. We visited Hermano Mendoza in the hospital again, and he has another surgery that we hope goes well. But he has a ton of faith and hope, which is amazing to see. Most of our other appointments fell through, but it wasn't a bad day!

I'm starting to get the hang of missionary life, and although it's hard, I'm enjoying it more and more as the days go by. It's so amazing to see all the miracles that allow us to work, and I keep seeing them every day. I've also been able to notice how my French and Spanish are improving, and it's been amazing to see, but I definitely have a lot of work to go. Luckily my trainer is super helpful so I know it'll get better.

I hope everything is well! I'm having a ton of fun, and I'm loving it out here. Love you all so much!


Elder James

Tuesday, October 10, 2017

Zarahemla Week 4


Me with Elder Luna
This week was great! We were super busy and got a ton done which was great.

I realized I haven't really defined what a typical day goes like, so I'll do so now. We wake up a little earlier, about 6:10 every day, to go play "Soccer Tennis" at a nearby field. It's essentially tennis, except you play it with a soccer ball. It's a bit hard since I never really played soccer, but it's fun! We then go back and get ready for the day. Since there are 4 people and one bathroom, it sometimes takes a while for everyone to get ready. But we all just eat and workout a little bit when the others are washing up. Then, at around 8:30, we start daily planning. We talk about the meetings and lessons we have and the things we have to do that day. We talk about the needs of our investigators and set general lesson topics and commitments for them. We set goals for how many new investigators we can find and other goals for the day. This planning session usually lasts about half an hour. Then we go on to personal study for an hour, companionship study for an hour and a half (extra 30 minutes since I'm in training), and then we do language study for an hour (which I alternate between Spanish and French each day). Then we have lunch at the apartment and begin our proselyting time. The rest of the day varies greatly day by day, usually we are able to have about two to three lessons or other appointments each day. Since our area is huge (a bit more than the whole east half of the island), we have a ton of travelling time, so we can't do many lessons in a day, but it allows us to do finding for a good chunk of the day. When we get home, usually at 8:00, we make dinner, write in journals and study a bit more (if we want to), and then get to bed by 10:30. It's pretty fun!

Just an alley in southeast that I thought was cool
On Tuesday, we were able to visit a member who has been in the hospital for the past few weeks. We have visited him a couple times before, and he's really nice. His name is Hermano Mendoza, and he has been recovering from a surgery that didn't go super well, so he's been in some pain. We were able to go and read the Book of Mormon with him a little bit, and he loved seeing us. It was awesome to raise his spirits a little bit.

On Wednesday, we had an apartment inspection from a senior couple who is really cool. We had a bit of time since they were running late, and they love spy movies apparently, so we decided to quickly set up a laser (red string) maze from them to have to walk through to inspect our apartment. We took off the smoke detector to activate as an alarm if they tripped any of the strings, which happened since they are pretty old and aren't super flexible. It was stupid but super funny since they played along. We then went to visit an investigator named Mauricio, who is really nice. He has been really enjoying the lessons so far, and convinced his friend Ricardo to take our lessons too! So now we teach both of them at the same time which is awesome.

On Thursday, we didn't have much proselyting time, since we had district meeting (which takes a total of 4 hours including travel time) and weekly planning (which takes about 3 hours by itself). That, on top of our studies, didn't allow us to really have any lessons, so we didn't do much else other than finding. But it was still good! Weekly planning can get boring at times, but it's awesome to talk about each our investigators individually and plan for them as well as set personal and companionship goals on how to improve.

The "taco" poutine at Frite Alors
On Friday through Saturday I was able to go on exchange with another Elder on the west side of the island, Elder Luna. It was really fun, and super helpful to learn different ways to do things. We had a few lessons set up, and it was interesting to teach with a different companion. He is Mexican as well (basically all of the missionaries assigned to Spanish are Hispanic and are already fluent in Spanish), so luckily, I didn't have to be relied on too much. He also took me to ANOTHER Poutine place that he likes. Missionaries DO NOT go out to Poutine that often, he was just excited to show me another place. It was super good though, I learned from my mistake and didn't get as much as I did last time. I've had my fill for Poutine probably for the next two transfers. When I got back with Elder Colunga on Saturday, we headed over to a member named Hermano Sanchez who hadn't been to church in over 40 years. It was actually crazy, we had found him on the metro and found out that he had been baptized in Chile a long time before, but then stopped going because of some fairly superficial reasons. He is SUPER cool though. When he was younger, he was a part of a Rolling Stones tribute band and absolutely loves music. When we went to where he lived, it was a tiny, tiny, one room apartment, except basically 50% of the apartment was filled with music stuff. He also works as a mechanic, and we found out that he had worked as a mechanic for Ferrari's race division! Super crazy. We talked about music and I bonded with him on Classic Rock and cars, and we then had great lesson. It was awesome meeting him!

Fast Sunday was great. We went to a Ward Council meeting, which is when all the leaders in the ward meet with the missionaries and talk about everything that is going on in the ward and the missionaries' investigators. I usually just write down words I don't know since it is hard to understand them sometimes, although I can definitely notice improvement in my comprehension. We then went to church and stayed with Hermano Sanchez and our other investigators who came and helped them with questions and anything they needed. They enjoyed it, and Hermano Sanchez is probably going to become active again! We will be meeting with him over the next few weeks to help him come back. Since we got home the night before really late and ate late, and since we're technically supposed to fast for 24 hours, we didn't end up having any food until about 9:30 at night. I was dying during the day since we were running around a ton! But it was fine, we had a nice dinner at the apartment.

Haitian Griot
Monday was Canadian Thanksgiving! Sadly, though, I can't really say what all the traditions are and how it's different than American thanksgiving, since the only difference for us was that the busses didn't come as often. We didn't celebrate it at all since all of our members and investigators are Latino and don't observe it. But it was still a great day! We had a lesson with Jesus and Yeni, who are the couple I mentioned earlier who are having some challenges out of their control, which was absolutely amazing. The spirit was super strong, and all four of us were in tears at a point during the lesson. We talked about the Book of Mormon, and they were extremely receptive to everything we taught them. It was so amazing, they are so ready for baptism. They just need to wait for now. We were on the other side of our area from our apartment, so we didn't have time to go home to eat, so we went to get Haitian food again which was AMAZING. I got something called Griot which is absolutely delicious pork. The restaurant is super sketchy, as always with great authentic restaurants, but it was so amazing and fairly cheap. We never get to eat out, so it was a good little celebration I guess for Thanksgiving!

My new haircut
Also, I just got a haircut from Elder Colunga, and it's SUPER short, but he doesn't know how to do anything other than use clippers, and we don't have enough time or money to get real haircuts, so it'll have to do for now. It's much shorter than I'm used to, but at least it doesn't look too bad!

Anyway, I hope you are all doing well. The mission has been so much fun so far, and I absolutely love being able to serve others all day long. It's such a humbling experience, and I'm so grateful for it. Love you all! Have a good week!


Elder James

Monday, October 2, 2017

Zarahemla Week 3

La Banquise
Thank you so much to everyone for all the birthday wishes! They meant a lot to me.

The day after last P Day was my birthday, and although it was a regular day with lots of work to do, I still got to do a few special things! I decided to actually cook something for breakfast, so I made some German pancakes! The egg shells and off flavor made me miss my mom's cooking, but they were still good! We got to find someone on the metro which was cool, but she was French so we won't be teaching her. We also had dinner with a family in the ward, the Pina Family, which was super good. I didn't tell them it was my birthday though, I didn't want them to do anything crazy. My parents also figured out a way to deliver pizza! There was A TON and we have been using it for lunches almost every day which has been so amazing. All in all it was a pretty great day!
Birthday Pizza!
On Wednesday we had Zone Conference, which is when the whole zone gets together for a 8 hour meeting with the President, his wife, and a few other senior couples. It was so cool! It was focused mainly on developing Christ like attributes, and it was super inspiring. We also went to a leadership meeting, since my trainer is a district leader, and it was such a cool meeting! I got a TON of great insights on how to be a good leader that would be very applicable both on and off the mission. It was so cool! After Zone Conference Elder Colunga and I were so pumped to try out some of the things we learned, that after we got home, we went straight to the Metro to do about 2 hours of contacting, and we found 5 new investigators! It was so amazing, we saw so many miracles.

Zone Conference with my Zone
Thursday was the first day it finally started feeling like fall. The rest of the week was really hot and humid, upwards of 35 degrees Celsius (95 Fahrenheit), but on Thursday it abruptly dropped to about 10 degrees Celsius (50 Fahrenheit). It's starting to get chilly, and hopefully I'll get my winter stuff before the prices rise!

General Conference was such an amazing experience. I was not prepared for amount I would learn in only 10 hours of instruction spaced out in 2 days. I took so many notes, and learned more than I ever have. Being in the missionary mindset truly makes you sensitive and receptive to learning and to the Spirit. It was easily the best Conference I have ever had, and I hope you all got a lot out of it as well.

Le Poutine Reggae
I have to save the best for last. On Friday, I had my first Poutine on my mission. We went to a place called La Banquise, and they had so many different kinds. It was pretty expensive, so missionaries usually only do it once a transfer (period of 6 weeks). Elder Colunga said that I had to get a large size, which could feed a family of 4 for an entire meal. He also said I had to EAT IT ALL. The pictures don't do it justice; it was absolutely massive and weighed about 3 pounds of pure fat. I wasn't planning on finishing, but peer pressure is such a real thing. The one I had was classic Poutine, with TONS of ground beef, tomatoes, guacamole, and peppers. It was super good.

Last bite!
There are many distinct stages of finishing large amounts of poutine (as opposed to just eating it). Let me go over them briefly according to my experience. 1st: Excitement. You look at the pile of fries, cheese, and gravy, and it looks SO good, and you just can't wait to try it. 2nd: Enjoyment. You start eating and it really is good! 3rd: discomfort. You eat probably 3 or 4 bites, and feel a feeling deep in your stomach that just isn't quite right, but you still continue. 4th: Beginning to climb The Wall. You are about 6 bites in, and you start to feel a bit full, and you've only eaten 5% of the Poutine. 5th: The Poutine Sweats. These are so real. Right when you start climbing the wall, your forehead and pits begin to perspire. 6th: Disorientation. This actually happens. Your eyes can't focus. You feel dizzy. Your brain is overwhelmed by the stimuli in your mouth and stomach, that it shuts down your other important functions. 7th: Hot and Cold Flashes. You feel waves of heat and cold emanate from your body, alternating from hot to cold. 8th: Discouragement. You're about 20 bites in, and you should be almost done, right? But no. You're not only half way done (Note: All the previous stages of climbing The Wall continue and just build up upon each other as The Wall is climbed). 9th: Hope. After what seems like hours of shoveling down cement into your throat, you realize that you only have what looks like 5 bites left. You're almost done! 10th: Overcoming The Wall. ALL of the previous ailments go away at the sight of only a few bites left. You feel a little more room miraculously appear in your stomach. You can do this! 11th: Triumph. You finish that last bite, and although your body should refuse it, you accept it gladly and stand amazed at your wonderful accomplishment. You could do this all day! But then, about 15 minutes later, you begin the next stage. 12th: REGRET. This stage lasts for the rest of the day, and into the next. You can hardly stand. You can't breathe. The sight of any food makes you want to die. All you want to do is drop down and pray that the pain is taken away.

I actually can't believe I finished it!
Well, there's the summary of how my Poutine eating experience went. However, later that night, we had a dinner appointment with a family in the ward, and you CANNOT refuse food from Hispanics. So, amazingly, I managed to eat the massive plate of rice, chicken, and vegetables that they so lovingly prepared for us. Although (I hope) they couldn't tell, inside I was dying. I don't think I've ever indulged so many calories in a single day in my entire life. It was probably one of the hardest days of my entire mission (kidding of course). I exaggerate a little bit of course, but ONLY a little bit. It truly was an interesting day.

Anyway, it was such a good week. A little different from the rest of my mission so far, but it was really fun. I'm absolutely loving the opportunity I have to serve others, and I'm so happy to be here. Montréal is growing on my more and more, and I can't wait for the days to come. Love you all so very much, I hope you are all doing great!


Elder James